Raising children is never easy, but parenting in a culture different from the one you grew up in brings a unique set of challenges. Many Persian families in Canada find themselves caught between the values they were raised with and the expectations of the society their children are growing up in. This can create stress, confusion, and conflict, both for parents and their kids.

As a Farsi-speaking therapist, I support Iranian families who are trying to parent with care and intention while navigating these cultural differences. Whether it’s disagreements about discipline, concerns about language and identity, or feeling pressure to succeed in a new country, these struggles are more common than you may think.

One of the most frequent concerns I hear is that children are becoming “too Canadian,” losing connection to Persian culture or not understanding family expectations. On the other hand, children may feel their parents are too strict, don’t understand their world, or are holding onto outdated ideas. This gap in understanding can cause distance, resentment, or even serious breakdowns in communication.

Therapy can help bridge that gap. Together, we can explore what values matter most to you as a parent, how to communicate those values clearly, and how to adjust your approach without losing your cultural identity. We also talk about what your child is experiencing and how to connect with them in a way that supports both their growth and your relationship.

You don’t have to choose between being a traditional parent or a modern one. You can be both: grounded in your culture and open to new ways of relating. With support, it’s possible to parent with confidence, connection, and calm.

If you are looking for a Farsi-speaking psychotherapist who understands the experience of Iranian families in Canada, I invite you to reach out. Together, we can work toward a parenting approach that feels respectful, effective, and true to who you are.